My father passed away suddenly 4 days ago after a long illness. It has not fully hit me yet that he is no longer with us. I have been to a few funerals before, but I am dreading going to his tomorrow.
I work on a PC helpdesk in an environment where there is a lot of people who me. So far they have been great, they have sent cards and flowers, and messages of support.
My problem is what would you consider a reasonable time off work to grieve properly and sort issues relating to the death out ?
I will need to face the people at my work at some point, but I am afraid in case I go back too soon and breakdown.
Does anyone have any experience of this ?
Thanks
How long off work to grieve ?
Firstly, I am so sorry for you loss - I can't imagine what you are going through but realise this is a tough time for you.
In answer to your question, you should take the time you need, your company should be understanding. Most companies allow at least two weeks for the death of immediate family. Once the funeral is over, call your Personnel Dept. and explain you may need extra time as you don't feel you are ready to get back to the normal routine of life. I have heard that some people do find comfort in going back to what they know as it helps them get back to normal quicker.
Take lots of care - we are all thinking of you.
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